Today sex therapist Dr. Kat Van Kirk answers listeners sex questions on BDSM, pegging, jealously in relationships, the porn "problem" and many more. If you got questions you'd like answered anonymously by a sex expert in a future episode, please send your question to firstname.lastname@example.org.
2.35 - How to deal with a man that is "jealous" of your vibrator.
6.25 - How to approach using a strapon with your man and why strapon sex is both healthy and fun.
8.20 - What you need to know about anal lube. Why silcone based lube is best for anal.
8.50 - The do's and don'ts of mixing alcohol and sex.
9.40 - Why guys are afraid of pegging.
14.05 - Dr. Kat talks about the problem with lower testosterone rates in men and why it's happening to so many guys.
16.20 - We discuss how porn causes problems in relationships AND why porn can sometimes be a good thing in your relationship.
23.10 - Practical tips on how to explore BDSM with your man.
24.50 - Why the submissive is always in control.
25.50 - Safe words and the traffic light system.
27.10 - Why BDSM doesn't have to be "hardcore" but can be a little bit more subtle and light.
32.50 - Practical tips for moving past infidelity.
More About Dr. Kat Van Kirk
You can find Dr. Kat at http://drkat.com or on social media:
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drkatvankirk
Twitter - https://twitter.com/DrKatSexChat
Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/drkatvk/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/drkatvk/
Tumblr - http://drkatsexchat.tumblr.com/
In today's episode, I talk to family and marriage therapist Dr. Corey Allen on the three dangerous mistakes that can affect your relationship. We dive deep and discuss how to prevent all three from becoming a major problem: money, sex and the in-laws/kids.
5.00 - Why it's not money that causes problems, it's the meaning attached to money.
6.28 - What to do when you and your partner view money in a very different way so it doesn't become a problem.
10.30 - Why you don't have to agree with everything your partner says or does.
12.40 - Why committed relationships are designed to help us grow up and how we need to grow through problems we face with our partner.
17.55 - Possibly the most important question you can ask yourself before you get married or if you are already married: "Would you want to be married to you?" and then applying this question to specific aspects of your marriage.
18.20 - What to do if you and your partner have different sex drives.
21.20 - The mistake guys make who have a higher sex drive than their wife and how it turns her off.
24.30 - Being honest with your partner and it's amazing benefits.
28.25 - We talk about when making a compromise in your relationship is not really a compromise at all.
31.30 - The issue with the in-laws.
33.45 - Why having a great relationship only requires common sense, but the problem is that we attach emotion to relationship...which make things complicated.
36.50 - Why recognizing that your emotions are going to cloud your judgement in your relationship.
38.00 - The main issue to avoid with your in-laws.
You can find Corey at http://simplemarriage.net and pick up a copy of Naked Marriage at simplemarriage.net/naked-marriage You can also listen to his podcast at https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/sexy-marriage-radio/id472302597?mt=2
In this episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast, I talk to swinger Cooper S. Beckett from the Life in the Swingset podcast. Cooper explains in detail what swinging is, the steps a couple can take to safely explore it, how it can help your relationship (or hinder it!) and more.
1.25 - how he got into the swinging scene.
4.55 Why monogamy, NOT SWINGING is the right choice for many people.
6.05 - The traditional definition of swinging
6.50 - What polyamory and why it's different.
8.15 - Why swinging and polyamory is definitely not cheating
9.45 - The problem with life's unspoken "social contract."
10.35 - How to start talking to your partner about swinging in a smooth way.
18.10 - Why non-monogamy has improved Cooper's communication skills.
18.35 - How to start your swinging journey with your partner and make sure it's a great experience, and why some couples have a bad first experience.
21.55 - Tips on how to spot and avoid fakers when using swinging sites
23.30 - How to make your first swinger date easy going and successfull.
25.10 - What to do if one partner has reservations.
28.40 - Dealing with jealousy.
33.55 - What to do if swinging doesn't work for you
43.55 - One of the most important benefits of non-monogamy
Kinsey scale - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
Cassidy - https://www.kasidie.com - the swinger site Cooper mentioned on the show
More On Cooper
If you want to get in touch with Cooper, you can find him online at:
Podcast website: http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/
Podcast on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/life-on-swingset-swinging/id354627460?mt=2
Cooper's Collection of Swinging Podcasts:
Cooper's 1st book
Cooper's 2nd book
Special Discount for Listeners
Cooper kindly gave me a discount code that you can use to get 10% off anything you purchase on his site, coopersbeckett.com. Just enter the word bible in the offer code section and that 10% discount will be applied to your order.
Sex Therapist Dr. Lori Buckley is my guest on the podcast today. We talk about everything from how to more easily reach orgasm during sex to getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas in the bedroom. You'll also learn why a "judgy" attitude in the bedroom is a bad idea and why "asking" for sex is even worse.
1.35 Lori's background and how she became a sex therapist.
5.10 We discuss why some women struggle to reach orgasm during sex.
9.20 Why getting "out of your head" is vital for reaching orgasm more easily.
11.40 A simple technique to help you orgasm during sex.
15.30 Tips for getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas.
20.00 Simple steps for sharing your sexual fantasies and fetishes with your man.
23.10 Why a "judgy" attitude is going to kill your sex life.
28.30 An easy trick for getting in the mood, IF you are in a long term relationship.
29.15 Why asking for sex is a BAD idea.
35.30 Why women sometimes need their man to be more assertive.
36.20 Why many gifts don't need to cost a cent but still have a massive impact.
37.00 We talk about the deep importance of sexual tension in your relationship.
You can learn more about Dr. Lori Buckley at https://www.drloribuckley.com/ and listen to her podcast here on iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/looking-for-love/id1146640020).
Welcome to the very first episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast. In this episode, I interview Scot McKay from X&Y Communications and the Mountain Top Podcast. We talk about a range of issues to keep your relationship and sex life red hot and satisfying.
3.45 Avoiding Netflix and chill
4.50 Why finding your best friend is more important than finding someone hot
6.35 The importance of communication
7.05 Why relationships aren't hard work if you're with the right person
10.45 The mistake people make when they try to spice things up
12.25 We talk about the value of arguing the right way
14.05 Why Scot and Emily give each other space to be angry and frustrated.
17.25 One of the most important things about sex.
19.15 why sex shouldn't be so serious
21.00 how men can bring more masculine energy and women can bring more feminine energy to their relationship
27.45 We talk about how people carry negative experiences from previous relationships into their current relationship and why it's dangerous
30.50 We talk about the major reasons why relationships fall apart
35.45 Scot's tips on how to improve your sex life.
You can learn more about Scot at http://deservewhatyouwant.com and http://mountaintoppodcast.com