The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Each week on the Bad Girls Bible podcast, your host Sean Jameson interviews experts and professionals and everyone in between to teach you the tips and technique you can use to improve your sex life and relationship or marriage. You'll also learn powerful insights on how to improve your dating and love life.
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Dec 31, 2018

Today on the podcast we welcome Poly Anna from the Sexploration with Poly Anna Podcast! In this episode we will be chatting about all things polyamory and getting Poly Anna’s personal and professional ideas, experiences and views on the subject. After a more traditional upbringing and early parts of her adult life, Poly Anna eventually found the strong desire for polyamory within herself and chose to pursue this urge. We get into the social aspects, catching feelings, intimacy and a host of other factors in this largely uncharted world of love. Poly Anna also gives us some great definitions and differentiations between various forms of ethical non-monogamy as well as sharing some positive and negative experiences of her own, navigating multiple partners and relationships. It promises to be a great episode with loads of helpful and juicy information for all of you.

Key Points From This Episode

  • Poly Anna’s own experiences and history with monogamy and polyamory.
  • Social expectations of polyamory and taboo acts.
  • How Poly Anna found her kinks and deeper desires.
  • Defining polyamory more clearly.
  • Some other versions of ethical non-monogamy.
  • Catching feelings and managing these in multiple relationships.
  • Is polyamory just an excuse to cheat without getting caught?
  • The initial steps to take in exploring polyamory.
  • Reaching out for help, support and information regarding this.
  • Maintaining intimacy with a primary partner.
  • Some of Poly Anna’s own experiences in polyamorous relationships.
  • Common stumbling blocks for different models of relationships.
  • Lessons for monogamy from polyamory!
  • Should everyone try polyamory?
  • Communication and coming out as polyamorous.
  • And much more!

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Poly Anna:

Poly Anna Facebook:

Poly Anna Twitter:

Poly Anna Instagram:

Poly Anna Email:

Polyamory: Married and Dating —

Dec 21, 2018

On today’s show we welcome Dr. Saketh R. Guntupalli who is the Vice Chairman for Clinical Affairs and Quality in the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the University of Colorado School of Medicine in Denver. He is also the author of the book Sex and Cancer: Intimacy, Romance, and Love after Diagnosis and Treatment, and in this episode we chat about exactly that. Dr Guntupalli gives us some background into what inspired him to write the book and then goes onto some great anecdotes and information on the ways that cancer can influence intimacy and sexual relationships.

He stresses the key points that partners should always remember in trying to combat these potentially negative effects as well as focusing on some of the beautiful and surprising situations that arise out of something as scary as a cancer diagnosis. For all this and much more, be sure to tune in!


  • The patient that inspired Dr. Guntupalli to research and write his book.
  • A particular story from the book about reimagining intimate life.
  • The connection between cancer, hair, breasts and sexuality.
  • The gender disparity around anatomical procedures in medicine.
  • A three-pronged approach to overcoming the sexual challenges of a cancer diagnosis.
  • Some pointers for being a helpful partner to someone in treatment.
  • The emotional repercussions that a cancer diagnosis can have on a relationship.
  • And much more!


“So what I would suggest is not to think about sex as intercourse and orgasm. It is a platter of different things that you choose from.” — Saketh Guntupalli [0:19:53.9]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Sex and Cancer —

Saketh Guntupalli —

University of Colorado School of Medicine —

Dammit Doll —

Dec 14, 2018

On the show today we welcome Xanet Pailet, tantra educator, sex coach, and author of Living an Orgasmic Life.

Xanet is here tell us all about her work and how accessing your sexual blueprint and core erotic themes can guide you to a more fulfilling sex life and transform your whole world. We discuss Xanet’s own journey and the events in her life that led up to her current vocation before launching into some examples of the difficulties that people can have accessing and communicating their sexual needs.

We talk about lowered libido, sexless marriages, shame and how these relate to our early development and socialization.

Xanet gives great insight into simple ways to approach these sensitive subjects and shows just what a difference these measures can make.

We finish off the chat thinking about some pragmatic solutions to these issues and ways in which individuals and partners can make progress in this regard.


  • Some of Xanet’s personal and professional background.
  • The experiences that contributed to her pursuing a career in sexual therapy.
  • An anecdote showing the damage an unspoken desire can do to a relationship.
  • Some of the reasons for sexless marriages and lowered libido.
  • The issue of shame and socialization related to pleasure.
  • An example of the crippling effects of shame on our bodies.
  • Core Erotic Themes and our underlying sexual emotions.
  • How to go about communicating sensitive needs or fantasies. 
  • Using games or apps to start the process of communication.
  • Redefining sexuality and finding ways around tricky needs.
  • Explaining Attachment Theory and it’s different formulations.
  • And much more!


“I think most women have never really had continuous great sex. I know that’s a big statement to make but I think it’s really true.” [0:08:35.9]

“And I think that is what people really need to understand and to realize is that they really need to look at sex in a much, much wider spectrum than what we currently talk about it as.” [0:27:21.6]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Xanet Pailet —

Power of Pleasure —

Living an Orgasmic Life —

OkCupid —

Jack Morin —

The Erotic Mind

MojoUpgrade —

John Bowlby —

Dec 7, 2018

Welcome back to another episode of the Bad Girls Bible Podcast. Today on the show we are talking to Vikki Ziegler, a practicing attorney of matrimonial law and civil litigation.

Vikki is also a television personality known for her commentaries on high-profile cases, an active volunteer for women’s and children’s charities, and the innovator of a unique and realistic approach to “divorce management.”

In her career, Vikki brings together her insights as a divorce attorney along with her childhood experience of her own parents’ divorce, and years of careful listening to clients and friends to give pragmatic advice to those currently going through divorce.

Vikki’s approach seeks to de-stigmatize divorce by allowing its empowering aspects to triumph and her concrete pre-marital tips help couples avoid the pitfalls that can lead to divorce. In today’s episode we are going to talk about the strategies you can use to keep your relationship solid and prevent divorce in the first place.

For an incredible conversation with advice you can implement in your own life today, don’t miss out on this episode!

Key Points From This Episode:

  • Vikki’s childhood and how it shaped her life to becoming an attorney.
  • The most unique divorce case that Vikki has had.
  • Why divorce can sometimes be a good outcome from a bad situation.
  • The main reasons why people get divorced.
  • Building a strong marital foundation; get emotionally and financially naked.
  • Importance of vulnerability and communication for building trust in relationships.
  • How childhood wounds shape your ability to be a partner.
  • Advice for couples who are on the brink of a breakup or divorce.
  • Why volunteer work and helping other people is key for those going through divorce.


“I tell everybody, marriage is just like a job. Whatever you give in, you get back.” — @vikkiziegler [0:08:54.1]

“Things change and you have to have a strong marital foundation before you walk down the aisle in order to weather these storms.” — @vikkiziegler [0:10:43.8]

“If you're not happy, you can't make someone else happy.” — @vikkiziegler [0:15:44.8]

“99% of the time I recommend that everyone should have a prenup, because nobody knows what the future holds.” — @vikkiziegler [0:17:34.8]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Vikki Ziegler —

Vikki on Twitter —

Vikki on Instagram —

Vikki on LinkedIn —

The Pre-Marital Planner —