The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Each week on the Bad Girls Bible podcast, your host Sean Jameson interviews experts and professionals and everyone in between to teach you the tips and technique you can use to improve your sex life and relationship or marriage. You'll also learn powerful insights on how to improve your dating and love life.
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Jan 28, 2019

On the show today we are joined by Vanessa Marin, who is a sex therapist specializing in helping women achieve orgasms. Through her work, in person and online, Vanessa has coached countless clients towards more fulfilling sex and a greater understanding of their bodies. In our conversation we cover Vanessa’s early desire to become a sex coach and the challenges that she faced on her journey towards her current status.

We then get into the nitty gritty of the big ‘O’, unpacking different types of desire, the dual control model, common myths on the subject and the helpful concept of curiosity. We also discuss sex toys, menopause, and some of the methods and resources that Vanessa offers.


  • How Vanessa found herself in the job of orgasm coach.
  • The basis of Vanessa’s program for helping her clients.
  • The strong bond between desire and orgasm.
  • Differences between spontaneous and responsive desire.
  • An explanation of the dual control model.
  • Female orgasms are complex, how can we simplify it?
  • Where to start focussing your efforts when learning how to orgasm.
  • A few of the myths around female orgasm.
  • The courses, steps and guides that Vanessa offers on her website
  • Rethinking orgasm through the idea of curiosity.
  • The use of sex toys in this endeavour.
  • Menopause and orgasm and comparing different perspectives.
  • A more realistic idea of a healthy sex life for couples.
  • And much more!


“I always knew that female orgasm would be a hot topic in this area but I was definitely surprised by how many women were really desperately seeking some sort of solution.” — @VMTherapy [0:03:38.7]

“There’s a really powerful relationship between desire and orgasm and I think that a lot of women tend to neglect that relationship.” — @VMTherapy [0:07:50.3]

“I think it’s equally as important to think about what are the things that get in the way of me feeling desire.” — @VMTherapy [0:13:28.8]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Vanessa Marin —

Brown University —

New York Times —

Oprah —

Real Simple —

Finishing School —

Emily Nagoski

Come As You Are —

Jan 21, 2019

On today’s show we welcome Laurie Watson. Laurie is a Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Couple’s Counselor and author of Wanting Sex Again: How to Rediscover Desire and Heal a Sexless Marriage. She is also the co-host of a podcast along with Dr. Adam Matthews called Foreplay: Radio Sex Therapy for Couples, designed to help couples keep it hot.

In clinical therapy, she has helped thousands of couples recover sexual passion and make love again in joyful, intimate, creative and exciting ways, sometimes even after years of sexless marriage. Inside this episode we dive into the topic of people wanting to reignite their passion and the desire that’s lost in a marriages or relationships. Laurie shares some incredible strategies to help you get back that fiery passion, today. We also diving into Laurie’s 444 Solution and getting your SEX confidence back!

Show Highlights

  • Laurie’s background and how she came to writing Wanting Sex Again.
  • How a good marriage becomes a sexless marriage.
  • The power struggle between the pursuer and the “distancer” in the relationship.
  • Examples of a pursuer and a distant person.
  • Understanding the concept of Attachment theory.
  • Detailed talkers versus bullet point talkers.
  • Importance of secure attachment.
  • Doing a self analysis to understand where you are at personally (and your relationship).
  • Laurie’s 444 Solution and how to use it in your relationship.
  • What birth control can do to a woman’s libido.
  • The Madonna Whore Syndrome.
  • Common issues affecting couples in their sex lives.
  • Getting your self confidence and body confidence back.
  • And so much more!


“Within two years of marriage, one third of all couples are sexless.” — @asklauriewatson [0:03:31.1]

“If there’s no big bang, there’s no big deal.” — @asklauriewatson [0:09:12.1]

“We need a talking avenue and we need a physical touching avenue to really have secure attachment.” — @asklauriewatson [0:15:53.1]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Laurie Watson —

Laurie’s Website —

Laurie on Twitter —

Laurie on Facebook —

Laurie on Instagram —

Laurie on LinkedIn —

Wanting Sex Again: How to Rediscover Desire and Heal a Sexless Marriage

FOREPLAY: Radio Sex Therapy for Couples —

Awakenings Center —

Love and Sex Quiz —

Make Love Not Porn —

Jan 14, 2019

Today on the podcast we are joined by a very special guest, none other than Alice Little from the Bunny Ranch and the Wing Woman Podcast. Alice is one of the most prominent sex workers in America and she is here to give our listeners expert advice and all round insider scoop on great sex and easy tips for increased pleasure and intimacy. In our discussion we cover Alice’s personal history and thoughts on sex work and perceptions around the subject. From there we cover dirty talk, orgasms, oral sex, BDSM and a lot more. Alice also gives some practical advice for body positivity and managing a partner of a different height in the bedroom. For all this amazing information and more from a truly wonderful ambassador for better sex, join us for today’s episode!

Show Highlights

  • How Alice found herself at The Bunny Ranch.
  • Why do people visit sex workers?
  • Some of the common misconceptions around sex work.
  • Alice’s advice for those listeners wanting to work on their dirty talk. 
  • Closing the orgasm gap and finding ways to share pleasure.
  • Alice’s advice to listener’s wanting to improve their fellatio skills.
  • The reciprocal advice for cunnilingus.
  • How to go about getting more acquainted with BDSM and sensation play.
  • Use of safe words and aftercare and why they are so important.
  • Clearly defining the BDSM acronym.
  • Some of Alice’s tips for overcoming height difference between partners. 
  • Getting over self doubt and getting on top of your partner.
  • And much more!


“I believe so strongly in the good that legal sex workers can do for society and I believe so much so that it’s the perfect job for me that I plan to continue to do so.” — @TheAliceLittle [0:05:27.3]

“If you can’t talk about sex and intimacy outside of the bedroom, you’re never going to get to the point where you can express yourself openly and comfortably while actually in the bedroom.” —   @TheAliceLittle [0:06:51.9]

“It’s the biggest sexual mistake that America is making right now, we’re failing to ask what our partner actually likes.” — @TheAliceLittle [0:10:26.9]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Alice Little —

Wing Woman Podcast —

Alice Little Twitter —

Alice Little Instagram —

Moonlite Bunny Ranch —

Alice Little Email —

Dennis Hof —

Ron Jeremy —

Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy —

Sephora —

Ulta —

Kink —

Kink University —

Adam and Eve —

Liberator —

Pornhub —

Fleshlight —

Jan 7, 2019

Jason Julius is a world renowned sex coach and female orgasm expert and his goal is to help as many men, women, and couples achieve the amazing sex lives they deserve. In this episode we are going to discuss everything a man can do to give his partner more intense and satisfying pleasure inside and outside the bedroom. We also dive into how to really get your female partner aroused by communicating with her throughout the day, and building on the fantasy for her ultimate sexual readiness. Jason is very candid and shares all his tips and advice on stimulating your female partner’s G-spot and A-spot, ways to encourage her to let go towards ejaculation, and the real culprits behind premature and delayed ejaculation for men. So if you’re listening and have a male partner, you may want to get him to listen to this episode too!

Key Points From This Episode

  • Jason’s background and how he got to where he is today.
  • Advice for getting your female partner aroused.
  • Breaking down the arousal process for men and women.
  • Understanding the concept of “sexy context”.
  • What makes for good foreplay from a guy.
  • The importance of quieting down your female partners’ mind.
  • Simplicity and the general rules of dirty talk.
  • Why it is critical to get to know yourself sexually.
  • Advice for providing clitoral stimulation, manually and orally.
  • How to find the G-spot, and why many people struggle to find it.
  • Why using a lubricant is sometimes a must.
  • Strategy for helping your partner achieve female ejaculation.
  • The dangers of too much porn, and forming the wrong paths in your brain.
  • And much more!


“I think that there’s a huge misunderstanding about female desire and how female desire actually works.” — @jasonjulius [0:05:37.1]

“For guys, we need to understand that we need to be constantly flirting with our woman to create the fantasy that she desires to get her mind engaged.” — @jasonjulius [0:09:10.1]

“The purpose of foreplay is to build up the fantasy.” — @jasonjulius [0:13:35.1]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Jason’s Squirting Tutorial Video -

Jason Julius —

Jason’s website —

Jason on Twitter —

Jason on YouTube —

Come As You Are